Does she have caring family/friends? Is she depressed? Is she lonely?
 107Charm March 21, 2012 at 1:20 am
 I think both men and women are afraid of ending up alone. Its human nature to want to be bond with another human being. Human beings want to reproduce and care for their offspring which is ideally done in a committed and loving relationship.
 I hope shes a least honest with the guy she ends up with. That way he knows his odds.
 108anonymous March 21, 2012 at 1:30 am
 @ Rum:
 “Second, she does not seem to have any concern (in measurable amounts) about the effects all her hooking around will likely have on any realistically obtainable future husbands well being. ”
 Understand that I’m not trying to undermine your concern as a man, I get it.
 However, getting back to her, she hadn’t even considered what it was doing to her own well-being, how could she have thought about what it would do to a future husband?
 She was probably thinking that her future husband would have a similar sexual history that she does, so he wouldn’t care.
 “Everyone’s doing it and the only consequences are STDs and pregnancy, right?”
 Not that this absolves her in any way from the mess she’s gotten herself into.
 109Anacaona March 21, 2012 at 1:32 am
 I hope shes a least honest with the guy she ends up with. That way he knows his odds.
 My hope is different. I hope she understand in the deepness of her heart that a guy giving her a chance is very valuable I think a lot of the stories of the “reformed slut” later cheating and divorcing comes from the fact that deep down she feels the man is a chump the whole “I wouldn’t want to be part of a club that has me as a member” syndrome. So once she stumbles upon that guy she needs to be 100% at peace with what she did and the consequences and appreciate his gesture, YMMV.
 Anacaona´s last [type] ..Redefining Hypergamy: Know the difference between a mistake and error.

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