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https://bit.ly/3Br8uaV https://bit.ly/34Jxuye https://bit.ly/3HZrdg6 https://bit.ly/3oUTe0K https://bit.ly/3HXQEPh https://bit.ly/3BsU3CW https://bit.ly/3Bvk58A https://bit.ly/3sN6HsP https://bit.ly/3JBF10A Now I'm confused. It sounds like you find this fantasy of "mind control" very erotically appealing, and that you want a partner who can make you feel that it's real. (Even though, I would claim, it will never be; unless you succumb to some mental health problems.) But now you're saying that you hope it doesn't turn into something nonconsensual? Is this anything like the DD submissive women who worry and fret that their husbands are going to give them a frightfully painful spanking, when that's exactly what they're hoping will happen? If you're suggestive, submissive, dependent, malleable in the hands of someone clever, manipulative and with experience of control techniques as well as being naturally dominant, there may be very little he is unable to make you do and more importantly very little he cannot make you want to do. It sounds like a fine fantasy, if you both enjoy it. But if you start to confuse it with reality, then I'd suggest that you seek professional help. As I see it, the Taken In Hand lifestyle is not really aimed at women who are so "suggestive, submissive, dependent, and malleable" that they are likely to lose control of their own minds and imagine that the man is controlling them via his psychic brainwaves or whatever. This is a relationship style based on consent, and the ability to consent requires that your full mental faculties -- especially including your own personal autonomy -- remain fully intact. That's good; it's fun; it's risky, edge play in a sense, much more than the risk someone might hit you too hard. It's risky if you start to confuse your fantasies with reality, yes. But there is no actual danger from "mind control" because that's just what it is, a fantasy. So the risk of actual "mind control" happening is negligible; whereas the risk that a man could break your bones by hitting you too hard is much more dangerous, because it's real.
